Does it exist any more? In this day and age it almost seems like it has gone out of fashion. The President of the United States demonstrates none, and surrounds himself with similars. His role model behavior has inspired others around the world…or others have inspired him. Who cares.
It’s definitely not gone. It is still there and there are many many role models who demonstrate humility in what they do. For a great example, watch Conan O’Brien’s 2026 commencement speech to Harvard University (of all places). https://youtu.be/F3fCktnkBbc?si=mno8cETpasqe2giV
Using self deprecating humor he explains that a piece of paper with a Harvard degree tells us little about him, or any of the graduates then and now. It’s worth the 24 minutes to watch it. Even better (i swear it) is Roger Federer’s 2024 commencement speech at Dartmouth College https://youtu.be/pqWUuYTcG-o?si=BpS7c0hEBqhLrK9M. He explains that almost half the time he fails – he loses his tennis point. He may be the greatest of all time, but to lose almost 50% of his competitive points and still arise is part of a lovely story he shares.
Other luminaries who demonstrate humility – as much as I am loathe to admit it (as a Manchester United fan) Pep Guardiola, manager of Manchester City seems an excellent example. Our new manager Michael Carrick seems so as well. Meryl Streep is another. How about Barack Obama? 2-time President of the USA yet still is able to demonstrate humility to the world, making him a far better role model for young people than Donald Trump, who can only inspire patricide, arrogance, and ignorance.
My dad demonstrated humility and inspired me to understand it well. His charitable works were outstanding, his ability to love and to make fun of himself were standout characteristics. Dad used to say that he couldn’t trust someone who couldn’t laugh at himself and I remember and live by that. When I led people in my corporate life, I tried very hard to show that I live by that model. I hope I succeeded at least more than I failed. To me, leadership is about basking in the success and glory of those who follow you, inspiring and coaching them to succeed and then ensuring they get the credit for it.
We need more people like that in leadership roles in our country and in our companies. Help me find them!
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I very much agree with your points. In the UK right now, in my opinion, and many many others, the words Integrity, Honesty, Respect no longer exist. Leadership you showed in IBM when I worked with you had all those qualities. Leadership in corporate business here today: the Chairman of B.P has been sacked for ‘inappropriate behaviour’. Need I say more?
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dispiriting….but thank you.
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